# Friday, March 27, 2009

..........Some people never learn do they? -.- Oh well. Like I said, I have no idea how thick or thin your skull is. Call me reckless, but I'm seeing this whole thing from an outside perspective. Once again I repeat, I side no one. This whole thing is just tipping off the ship (thanks to a few selective people). Better fix it before it (or them) goes overboard. Besides I'm not exactly an outsider in this thing :]
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The abit tough part: Close your eyes and shut out all your emotions unless its necassarry to use it. Your brain is alot more sane than your heart. Ok here are a few things I'd like you to rethink. It's really quite simple. It's most likely that you're over-reacting.

The simple part: Read whats below here. Makes complete sense if you can understand what im typing.
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What is it about her (or anyone else) that you dislike so much?
Her:
Attitude? - Everyone has attitude. It differs by how they choose to show it. Rebellion? Kindness? Snarkiness? Up to the person. You can't exactly force them to change their attitude. Best you think of your own flaws and not focus on someone else's. Who knows? You might find that its similar.
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Accusations? - Think about what you've been doing to her for the past 3 months. Now put yourself in her shoes and how would you feel? Surely you'd want to get even with the main person who caused you that misery (or simply the one you dislike the most who is part of it). It can be absolutely anyone of you.
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Class Parent's Support? - Once again....... It's because of the way you behave around her. Any 3rd party person can clearly feel the intense hostility directed. In this case, imagine that you're just passing by our class and you see people insulting and making those obnoxious faces at their classmate. You'd think that there's either a problem with that person or the other people. But either way it would surely give you (the walking past one) a bad impression, no?
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My typing this? - Hah I doubt so but just so you know, I'm doing this cos I want to. And no, there is nothing I can do to actually make you realize what youre doing, I know that much at least. But I hope that all my efforts wont go to waste.
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Ending: Reflect on what you just felt. You'd probably feel guilt, sorry, bad, or that this whole thing is ridiculous and remain thinking that you're doing the right thing.
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Remember, this doesnt apply only to this matter. It applies to most relationship (as in friendship, family, or maybe romance) problems. I won't post anymore of these draggy and mind-boggling posts unless its really needed. If you still believe that you're not at wrong, it'd be best if you talk to the person personally. Kudos to you.
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`Nadaaaaa;-)
(Note: Any complaints or violent objections? Tell me :] I'm open to reasonable and structured critiscm, but don't come shooting at me with no foundation whatsoever )